I've just been watching some random reality show design contest with Philip Starck the french designer at the helm, so I felt compelled to give my post title a bit of a french accent. Gosh he is a straightforward man, and I do enjoy the dressing-downs he gives in his lovely accent! "We need to find a pss-eechologeest, zis is complette-ly coucou!"
Anyway, to my weekend.
Big milestone around here, I spent my first full day away from Suri. I was a little nervous about their dad taking all three to soccer in the morning and then dealing with a hungry baby all day, but his brief was give her plenty of water and plenty of snacks, and even though I got the serious milk-tingles a few times throughout the day and checked my phone obsessively, all was fine. I got a phone call at around 4pm as I was rushing, sew-sew-sewing, thinking "they will need me at home it will be chaos", but the call was a happy "We're at Richard's and about to have dinner".
SO as it turns out it was a grand day of soccer, playing with friends, then heading out to the best farm on the coast: six kids and two dads, one mum in China the other half way up a mountain making a doll, and it all went off without a hitch.
Yes me, a doll. Firstly, I am a shithouse sewer. Secondly, (why is "sewer" and "sewer" spelled the same?) it's always felt a bit twee, this doll-making thing. OK I'm going to come out and say it: the patchwork quilt, stuffed doll, dolls in general, cross-stitch and bric-a-brac crafty scene has always been a bit *yawn* to me. BUT there is something about those Steiner dolls with those pinny little blank expressions and the freaky hair and wooly dresses that appeals, and I think it's nice to make something with your own hands for your kids. Something that extends further than my standard pipe-cleaner wands and cardboard box robots, something that they can treasure forever.
So when I saw the doll-making day advertised in the local Steiner school newsletter, my "inner-waldorf" peeked out. When several of my friends did the workshop and came home with lovely wonky dolls all original and gorgeous, I became determined that my children too, would go around clutching beloved dolls all day, even if my son's is clad in home-made syndicated Ben 10 product, disdained by Steiner-types worldwide.
And so it was that I found myself driving child-free with two girlfriends to a little round hobbit house nestled at the foot of the mountains by the side of a river, settling in with a dozen other women for an eight hour day of sewing, chatting and eating, and coming home with dry aching fingers and a featureless yet character-filled doll that is completely ADORED by Suyeon.

Sunday, we took off to grandma's to do some more sewing, pinch some mohair for stuffing (Suhan is sewing Mario stars now. See, you can incorporate tradition craft skills with modern technology!) and to cook up a couple of big lasagnes.
It was lovely to pick my granny up along the way and keep her hostage at mum and dad's. Just plop a sleepy 4 year old on an old lady's lap and old lady can't go anywhere! I got to talk her ear off, and learned I need to be more happy-go-lucky with the houseowrk. HA! Is there anyone less fussy about the house than I? I don't think so!! If I was any more happy-go-lucky someone would call the health department!
Suhan chopped up all the zucchini for our dinner, and we left hot food for all three oldies and brought ours home to poor Dadda who was pretending to suffer in front of the nice warm fire.